(a) Reason?

PART 1 - Picture this

"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must Man be of learning from experience" _G.B. Shaw

  Certain people enter our lives for a reason, with a purpose: to change us for ever.

They don't have to stay long, just enough to make us unrecognizable to ourselves.
Or lead us to something great.

   

And if we were to listen to my all time favorite, Oscar Wilde..

 there are only two tragedies in life: 

one is not getting what one wants, 

and the other is getting it.

Well, isn't life just great? 

We go from one paradox to another. 

 Still, knowing all this, why are we still afraid of taking risks?

      Why are we still afraid of saying what we think? 

             Of screaming our feelings out loud? 

and then...starting everything all over again?

PART 2 - Picture that

I must be the most horrible person in the world ...at least right now.

My relationship may be over (for the 100th time) cause I didn't want to change my profile picture with one that included HIM. Which profile pic? ANY.

Is this the next level for our relationshits? Or am I already behind???

I'm sorry, but I won't do it.  If my man needs social media to make sure his relationship is safe, all I can say is: 

And I'm not even a fan

 Is this the rule nowadays? 

The reason why I won't do it? Do I even have to justify this???

       Certain things have to stay mine. When in a relationship, I still need to be me, on my own.

 I say good for those people who put their entire family in their profile pic. Or their child. Or their boyfriend/girlfriend/parents etc. But I ain't one of those. And I don't ask for it either.

My profile pic represents .

Maybe if I were still in my 20's, I'd understand this sort of needs. But recently I turned...Oh God! It hurts to even say it, but I will: 34!

Or maybe I only got those 4 moods: